The movie couples should watch

I personally recommend you to watch Fireproof together with your husband or wife. It will help you to save your marriage and to avoid divorce. You will learn more how to treat your husband and wife better and how to have a wonderful life together. It's not too late to start all over again. Every marriage is worth saving. I hope you'll watch it. You can watch Fireproof's trailer and some of it's parts here in my blog. Learn and enjoy! Click here to watch the movie..

5 Tips To Save Your Marriage

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Saving Your Marriage

When you first walked down the altar, you intended on living a life of romantic bliss with your new partner. That was until babies were born, the bills started pilling up and your sex life became non-existent. Now you and your spouse are in a position where you are desperately figuring out what you can to do go about saving your marriage. Perhaps there is a quick-fix solution through a ‘saving your marriage’ website, or a ‘saving your marriage’ book. And while these resources can be helpful, you probably already know what you need to do to save your marriage. These common-sense steps include: increasing communication between yourself and your partner, spending more time with them and revving up your intimacy.

The first step you need to take for saving your marriage involves improving your lines of communication. Many couples tend to put aside more controversial communication when the relationship is doing well. But when they do this, the result is a build-up of tension over a period of time. Then when an argument does erupt, the other partner may be presented with issues that, while unresolved, have nothing to do with what they are currently discussing. This causes even more anger. So, if you’re concerned about saving your marriage, don’t allow such things to happen. If you’re having trouble discussing certain issues, consider getting marriage counseling, so you’ll have a mediator to help keep things under control. From these sessions hopefully you and your spouse will learn how to discuss more negative things without exploding in anger.

The next step that is pertinent for saving your marriage involves spending more time with your partner. Now, you may be wondering why such a step is necessary for saving your marriage, especially if you feel that you see your partner all the time. But seeing your partner at home isn’t the same as spending more personal, by-yourself time with them. This is because at home there are distractions, such as kids, bills and house work. But if you take your partner out on a date or even a vacation, everything will revolve around just the two of you. Indeed, if you are really about saving your marriage, you will want to go out of your way to schedule extra time with your partner outside of the house.

The final thing you need to do when it comes to saving your marriage is being more intimate with your partner. Part of this will be easier if you can regularly schedule personal time with them. But you should still try to maintain intimacy even beyond that. Additionally, intimacy should be deeper than just sex, though sex is a part of intimacy. Romance needs to be in the equation. Examples include a romantic bath or dinner. And when things do move into the bedroom, perhaps you can consider experimenting with different sexual activities to help liven up the routine.

In conclusion, you don’t need a book for saving your marriage. The answers are already in your own head and heart. And hopefully by following the simple steps outlined in this article, you and your spouse will rediscover the love that brought you down the aisle in the first place.

Saving Your Marriage Tip #1

Don't raise your voice. If saving your marriage is your goal, then it is very important to remember not to raise your voice when talking or especially arguing with your significant other. Raising your voice immediately puts the other person on the defensive and makes them want to attack you back rather than communicate.

Saving Your Marriage Tip #2

Communication is key. One of the biggest problems most couples have is that they do not communicate effectively. Yelling our exploding at someone is not communicating. When something bothers you or is on your mind, it is important to communicate that to your partner calmly and verbally at that moment or as soon as you two can be alone. This will help to prevent small annoyances from building into big arguments.

Saving Your Marriage Tip #3

Space is good. You need you give each other their personal space. It is perfectly normal and healthy to want some time away from your partner. This does not mean you don't love them. Spend time apart as well as together and you will have a much healthier relationship.


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Do it now! You can save your marriage now. Always remember that God will not give you trials you can't handle, so act now, you can still save it. Just be positive and follow these tips. I know you'll make it.

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